Do you ever hold yourself back? Most of us do. How do you get in your own way? Let’s explore why that happens and what you can do about it.
It happens because throughout your life you are being programmed and much of that programming is false. Not only is it false but it goes unquestioned.
What this means is, you have false ideas and beliefs running your life all day, every day and you are not even aware that’s going on.
Are you ready for a healthier expression of you?
You are programmed to think that you:
Should not ask for what you want.
Should make due with what is.
Should be quiet and not seen.
Should not feel certain feelings
Should not have certain thoughts.
Should not be selfish and want what others don’t have.
Should seek the approval of others over self-approval.
Should get along with others even if they treat you poorly.
Should do as those in authority tell you to do.
Should keep busy
Should not relax because there is too much to do
Should do as you are told.
Should struggle to make things work.
Should not ask questions.
Should be modest.
Should not cause trouble.
Should not have a big ego (in this case shouldn’t be confident).
Should not question your beliefs.
Should not feel good about yourself.
Should not do as others do.
Should not sin or you will burn in hell.
Should be more serious and not have fun.
There are many more of these shoulds and should not’s you, I, and everyone were taught growing up. Isn’t it time to eliminate these limits once and for all?
I want to invite you to notice how often you get in your way. Become aware, change your thinking and move on.
Kindly, with compassion for self, leave the past behind and step around all those shoulds and should nots.
Then:
Let your light shine
Let you energy flow
Let your love expand
Take risks
Have fun, laugh often, smile all the time
Do things with boldness
Challenge yourself
Be loud enough to be heard
Stand up for what your believe in
Live by what matters, what you value
Go from cautious to passionately expressed
Go from holding back to boldly stepping forward
Jump into things with all you have
Move past fear with courage
Push past resistance
Drop all self-doubt
Express who you are creatively
Walk with determination
Trust in all things working out
Live now, be present to each moment as fully as possible
Live in constant appreciation and gratitude
Have a purpose and live it fully
Commit to being extraordinary
Strive to be aware at all times
Have clear intentions
Love and totally accept yourself each day
Set a goal to be have more freedom
Let your spirit soar
Move with strength
Expect respect
Listen and follow you intuition
Question everything
Be more, want more, keep expanding
Now go out there and make things happen with lots of heart and the power of a person who has something of great value to offer the world.
PS: You are awesome, greatness and genius waiting to be discovered. Let me know if I can be of assistance in bringing all of that out in you.